Former pro-soccer player Joanna Lohman shared her thoughts on reinventing yourself after adversity in a recent Talking Toughness Podcast. We will all encounter adversity, whether that is a significant injury, relationship breakdown, business issues or maybe just a run of bad luck.
Adversity is a stimulant for regeneration or ‘moulting’, just like the dungeness crab which will moult 30-40 times in its life, even replacing its own legs! Moulting gives us a chance to decide what stays and what goes. We need to learn the ability to overcome adversity, ‘Snow plough’ parents are becoming more and more common… pushing snow (adversity) out the way so their children don’t learn to deal with their problems…. a downside of privilege nowadays.
What happens if we don’t moult? If our identity is so tightly wrapped around a specific vision of what was, we don’t have the ability of acceptance or evolution. Success should evolutionary. It should be about pushing our own boundaries, expanding our comfort zone and facing resistance.